Are you a father who works too much? Your child may have behavioral problems.
Among the causes of bullying are often cited his family situation with his parents super busy, inattentive to the dialogue and enforce the rules.
The sociologist Andre Christie-Mitzell of Vanderbilt University, in un recente studio pubblicato su Youth & Society, mette invece in relazione la quantità dell’impegno lavorativo del padre con lo sviluppo dei comportamenti aggressivi, prevaricanti, da parte dei figli. Somministrando i test (BPI) a 687 ragazzi dell’età fra 10 e 14 anni, viventi con entrambi i genitori, lo scienziato ha scoperto che la percezione da parte dei ragazzi della scarsità del tempo dedicatoli dai padri è un fattore determinante per l’insorgenza dei comportamenti da bullo.
I figli dei padri più impegnati erano più propensi a compiere atti crudeli contro i compagni, to disobey the school and will not apologize for the misconduct. Instead, the working hours of mothers had no influence, perhaps, supposed Christie-Mitzell, because mothers are still perceived as being more present, responsible for family life.
As important the presence of both parents, this time is the father who makes the difference!
The Board of Prof. Christie-Mizell is to schedule the time, mostly to spend with their children so that children can count on meeting with the father to ride a bike on Saturday morning, at the stadium on Sunday, Friday or cinema, etc.. The positive impact is given by the regularity of the commitment, an impromptu trip, although pleasant, does not have the same effect. If you skip this event, remember the reasons why your children and recognized the importance of the commitment occurred to your family life.
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